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Your Child and Underachievement

According to standardized intelligence tests,by having low expectations and bestowing an
children are getting smarter and smarter.excess of material possessions. When children
Most children recognize school success as ahave difficulty in a particular subject,
highly valued achievement in today's world.permissive parents find many reasons that the
Our culture celebrates high achievers, and weproblem is not their child's fault. They may
are one of the most productive nations inreason that the textbook is too hard. They
history. Yet many educators agree thatmay blame the teacher for being overly
underachievement is among the most seriouscritical. They may think that the child has
problems facing our schools today, affectingan inherited problem with this particular
nearly  one  out  of  four  children.subject.
As early as the second or third grade, yourOne unfortunate trend in some school
child may show signs of not performing up todistricts has been to overdiagnose learning
his or her potential. There is no cleardisabilities or other handicapping
personality profile or temperament that weconditions, giving children who are topical
can associate with this problem. Familyunderachievers an excuse for their problems
conflicts and emotional problems mightin some subjects, rather than just demanding
contribute to underachievement, but even heremore  from  them.
there  are  no  definitive  patterns.
A child whose parents only look to find blame
Underachievement can take several differentfor poor performance will never learn to look
forms. Some children do poorly in all subjectto her own actions to find answers. The
areas-a problem known as pervasivemessage is that her problems are beyond her
underachievement. They may have specificcontrol.
learning disabilities or emotional problems
that interfere with their learning, or theyTemperament
may just dislike school. Some children simply
see school as a low priority in their livesAn impulsive temperament is a significant
and are there only because they have norisk factor for many children. Some of these
choice.children are labeled as having behavioral
problems and others are diagnosed as ADHD,
Another form of underachievement can occurbut nearly all impulsive children tend to be
when a child has difficulty with one specificdelayed in their language development as well
subject area. This type of child essentiallyas in their problem-solving skills. Because
succumbs to his frustrations in math, orof their slower development, they often start
language, or science, and does not feel theschool below their real potential and, all
need to work harder in these areas. Educatorsthings being equal, continue to perform that
refer  to this as "topical underachievement."way  throughout  their  school  career.
Unfortunately, because underachievement canChildren with an impulsive temperament have
come in many shapes and sizes, the earlytrouble thinking before they act. On the
signs of school difficulty may be overlookedother hand, children who are born with a
or mislabeled. The child is thought to bereflective temperament typically have a
bored instead of unmotivated, or perhaps avariety of coping strategies to resist
learning disability is diagnosed where nonetemptation, including the ability to persist
exists. Some educational researchers believewith a task, literally talk themselves
that so many children are uninterested inthrough the necessary steps, foresee the
school because of what they termfuture consequences of their actions, and
"insufficient rewards." This theory explainscomprehend that there are multiple solutions
that human behavior is motivated by theto a given problem. As we shall see, although
desire for certain rewards, particularlysome children do not seem to innately possess
social  rewards  like  praise or recognition.these cognitive skills, they can be taught to
control their impulsivity so that the path to
High-achieving students are constantlylearning  is  easier.
rewarded for their efforts by teachers,
parents, and peers, but moderate- orGender
low-achieving students do not have these same
reinforcements. If these students get socialA child's gender must also be considered a
rewards from being the best video-gamerisk factor for certain kinds of
player, or having the largest baseball-cardunderachievement. Boys are more at risk for
collection, then it is no wonder that theyproblems in early reading, and girls are more
are  unmotivated  to  do  schoolwork.likely to have problems in math, especially
when they enter middle school. According to
There are many other theories about why sopsychologist Sylvia Rimm in her study of a
many children don't perform up to theirthousand successful women, as reported in her
potential; in fact, there are probably asbook "See Jane Win", many of the most
many theories as there are children whomotivated and ambitious women that she
underachieve. On the other hand, there isinterviewed were turned off to math in their
much more agreement on how to prevent ormiddle-school  years.
reverse underachievement, and as we shall
see, this can be done at any stage of aShe advises parents, "Whether you liked or
child's  development.feared math, encourage your daughters to
enjoy the subject. Your daughters will have
RISK  FACTORS  FOR  UNDERACHIEVING  IN SCHOOLmore choices if they conquer math.... If you
have a choice, find a school that encourages
Socioeconomic  Levelgirls  to  take  math  and  science."
It's hard to argue that the most common andSibling  Dynamics
serious risk factor for underachievement has
to do with the socioeconomic level of theSome experts believe that certain sibling
family. Children who are born into povertycombinations may also be a risk factor for
(22 percent of American children live at orunderachievement. Children who are fewer than
below the poverty line, according to 1997two years apart may be very competitive with
statistics) will likely be deprived of theeach other, particularly if they are the same
best nutrition, high-quality health care,gender. If one sibling has more natural
educational toys and books, and parents whoaptitude than another, the second sibling may
have  the time to spend on early stimulation.feel that it is useless to try to compete. He
may use his seeming indifference to school to
Research strongly suggests that a deprivedget attention from his parents. The so-called
early environment will impede both theclass clown is often the younger sibling of
emotional and cognitive development ofsuch a family constellation, getting
children, but even with appropriate earlyattention by testing authority rather than
stimulation, children who are born intorisking failure in the eyes of his parents
families with low incomes will likely sufferand  the  world.
from fewer parental expectations,
lower-quality schools, and a greater exposureSiblings of gifted children can also be at
to family and community risk factors. Manyrisk for underachievement. Their needs may be
child advocates are particularly concernedoverlooked in the adulation of the more
that these children will fall even furthertalented child. Some parents recognize this
behind in the upcoming decade, since theyproblem and mistakenly overcompensate for
won't have the same access to computers andit-the less gifted child may find himself the
the Internet as will children fromrecipient of false compliments, leaving him
higherincome  families.to believe neither in himself nor in his
parents. The siblings of gifted children
Although most schools and libraries haveoften harbor great strengths of their own,
computer centers with a collection ofbut fail to find them or trust in them, given
software programs and Internet access, it'sthe excitement generated by the gifted child.
not the same as having immediate access to a
computer  in  the  home.Children with a sibling who has a handicap
:nay also be at risk for low achievement.
A  Disruptive  Family  EventSometimes these children use poor school
performance as a means to compete with the
A specific disruptive event in a child'ssibling for their parents' attention, and in
life-such as a move to a new school, asome cases there is a guilt factor, with the
divorce, or a serious illness in thenonhandicapped sibling feeling somehow
family-can trigger an episode ofresponsible for her sibling's problems. The
underachievement. Children who areguilt this child might feel both for her
categorized as "situational underachievers"potential success at school and for being the
previously performed well in school andone who is not handicapped can lead to
enjoyed learning, and their sudden poorvarious emotional problems, with
grades and lack of interest in work are outunderachievement  a  common  symptom.
of character. Situational underachievement
occurs as a symptom of an underlying problem,In most of these cases the underachieving
and when that problem is addressed throughstudents will usually respond to increased,
some form of intervention, the child willstraightforward encouragement and
typically bounce back, after a period ofacknowledgment by their parents of the
three  to  six  months.special  situation  they  are  in.
When the underlying problem is not addressed,A  Sense  of  Entitlement  in Gifted Children
however, these students may not easily find
renewed success in school. In extreme casesFinally there is the paradox of the gifted
the underlying causes can lead to a form ofchild, who is born with innate intelligence
learned helplessness, in which children feelor special talents but who all too frequently
that they have no control over their livesdoes not fulfill his or her potential. A
and that it is not in their power to masterconsiderable amount of the psychological
the tasks before them. Underachievement thenresearch on underachievement has focused on
becomes  a  chronic  problem.these children. Many psychologists have
concluded that underachievement in gifted
Overindulgence  and  Permissive  Parentingchildren frequently stems from too much
attention paid by one or both parents,
In earlier times, before television and videoleading  to  a  sense  of  entitlement.
games and the dozens of household appliances
we take for granted, children were expectedWhen these children inevitably encounter
to work hard around the house and contributeteachers or instructors who do not give them
to the well-being of the family. Today mostthe same level of attention or the special
children are required to do only perfunctoryconsiderations they feel they deserve, they
chores, and even these are met withmay become uninterested in school as an act
complaints. Parenting articles on gettingof  defiance.
children to do chores advise us to "make
chores fun." But that does not teach today'sVirtually all of the problems -divorce,
children what their grandparents knew whentrauma, behavioral problems, and shyness-can
they were little: sometimes it is necessarybe a factor in underachievement. However,
to do difficult work without any short-termpreventive measures can be taken at every age
rewards.to keep underachievement from being an
additional obstacle to a child's healthy
A permissive parenting style is characterizeddevelopment.



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