| Once, when asked about her life, former First | | | | far better off remaining single than marrying |
| Lady Barbara Bush said, "I married well."Is | | | | a man who views marriage and family in this |
| it wrong to want to marry well? Ladies, it's | | | | light. Keep searching until you find the man |
| all about survival - and it's all about what | | | | who truly understands the meaning of marriage |
| you will be able to do for your children. | | | | and family.These men are out there!!Where can |
| Marry well, and you will never have to fear | | | | you find a man who wants a traditional family |
| the basic survival issues, such as illness | | | | life, with whom you can raise beautiful |
| and unemployment - threats that single women | | | | children who have the best of both parents |
| (especially single mothers) have to face | | | | while growing up (instead of spending most of |
| every day.Mother always said, "You can just | | | | their time in school and daycare with |
| as easily love a rich man as a poor man." | | | | thrown-together frozen meals and an exhausted |
| Mother was right.But what makes a man rich? | | | | mom and dad)?The best place to find a man |
| Richness comes in many forms. Another word | | | | like this is in a church or synagogue.And the |
| for riches is "abundance." Life can be | | | | best place to find churches with the most |
| abundant in many ways. A relationship can be | | | | eligible men is in a larger city. However, |
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| life.What is it about wealth and abundance | | | | full-time at demanding jobs while at the same |
| that make these things so appealing to so | | | | time raising babies, toddlers, or school-aged |
| many of us? Take the time to think about | | | | children?These women are stretched to the |
| this before you proceed on your journey to | | | | max. They spend from morning till night |
| find a wealthy mate.Abundance means | | | | working both at their jobs and then at home |
| security.We have security when we no longer | | | | taking care of their families.If you should |
| have to worry how we will get the money for | | | | be so blessed as to find or to already have a |
| our basic needs and wants.We have security | | | | man in your life who genuinely wants you to |
| when our life is not dependent upon having | | | | have the freedom of choice to stay home and |
| and keeping a job - especially not a job we | | | | take care of your family, you must never take |
| dread going to every day.We have security | | | | him for granted.If you are fortunate enough |
| when there is more than enough money to take | | | | to marry a man who encourages you to stay |
| care of us, now and in the future.We have | | | | home after your children are born, you must |
| security when we know that our children will | | | | do your part to make it worthwhile for him! |
| not have to live in impoverished | | | | How can you do that? There are four important |
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| money. It is not wrong to want to marry | | | | you can.Stay attractive and stay in shape. |
| someone who handles his or her money | | | | The best way to do that is to keep |
| prudently. Nor is it unusual, whether you | | | | exercising.Keep your home neat, uncluttered, |
| are rich or not, to want to marry someone who | | | | and beautiful. It doesn't have to be fancy |
| is financially secure. No one wants to get | | | | to be beautiful. Less is more.Never, and I |
| romantically involved with someone with | | | | mean never, get over your head in debt. If |
| chronic problems with money - gambling, debt, | | | | you need extra cash, find ways to make money. |
| overspending, risktaking. These things can | | | | The old saying is true: where there is a |
| ruin a marriage or relationship faster than | | | | will, there is a way!A woman can make her own |
| anything.However, there are hidden riches in | | | | fortune with or without a man in her life. |
| marrying many men whom you might otherwise | | | | Women are doing it every day. You don't need |
| overlook. If you marry a man who gives you | | | | a man, rich or not, to complete your life. |
| the freedom of choice as to whether you work | | | | But if you decide it's time to fall in love, |
| or not, you have in essence just become a | | | | be sure to make a wise decision in the area |
| millionaire, even if your husband earns | | | | of money, and marry someone who is |
| $30,000 per year!"Do the math": if you marry | | | | responsible with his earnings, and who is |
| at age 30, you may be married for 40 or more | | | | generous. (The most unsexy man in the world |
| years. | | | | is the cheapskate.) You don't need to deal |
| | | | with someone else's debt collectors calling |
| 40 years x $30,000 per year = $1,200,000 - | | | | your home and a ruined credit report as a |
| money that is being earned for you while you | | | | result of your wedding vows. You don't need |
| are busy raising a family and nurturing your | | | | to be the only one who pays the bills while |
| life together. A husband who doesn't insist | | | | your man plays computer games, entertains |
| that you work automatically makes you a | | | | buddies, and drinks beer all day.Smart, |
| millionaire!! You don't have to be "rich" - | | | | responsible attitudes about money will result |
| to be rich!!But what is happening today? | | | | in long-term wealth and security at any |
| Young women report all the time that guys are | | | | income level. Marriage can be difficult |
| bringing this subject up on the first date! | | | | under even the best of circumstances. Marry |
| Before the cappuccino is cold, these men are | | | | a man who adds to your life, rather than |
| telling women that any wife of theirs should | | | | takes away from it, and then make him glad he |
| expect to help bring home the bacon, even | | | | married you. Then you have indeed married |
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